How to Wear Sexy Lingerie When You Don’t Feel Sexy

From time to time, is completely normal to feel low and not the sexiest in your body. But what should we do when that feeling is constant and it stops us from doing things we would like to?! How to wear sexy lingerie when you don’t feel sexy?!

A lingerie, in general, is a piece of clothing made to make us feel beautiful. But we know that’s not always how it works. It is important to remember that lingerie fits all bodies, all shapes, and all sizes. So, I can promise you the problem is not you!

Sometimes all we need is something to hype us up, and a blast of endorphin!

Before I start listing things that could possibly help you feel sexy in sexy lingerie, make sure you grab a pen and a paper. You will want to put these tips down and take them with you wherever you go.

Important disclaimer:

These tips may not help everyone. Please seek mental health providers if you are feeling down and have a low-self-esteem! There are things that are too deep down our minds and could use a little help from professionals.

Now going back to how to wear sexy lingerie when you don’t feel sexy:

Before anything, Let’s go shopping!

I feel like when we aren’t feeling sexy, we tend to run away from stores and mirrors. But it could excite you enough to want to wear a cute lingerie piece.

Choose your favorite store and go buy some lingerie. Even if you’re not in the mood to wear them right away, you will need them later!

Make sure to buy pieces you feel comfortable wearing. Perhaps if you are feeling self-conscious of certain parts of your body, you can find a piece that covers enough and allows you to feel comfortable and beautiful in it.

There are many options for all sizes and shapes, but if you’re still not sure which one to go with, try a lacey, flowy baby doll! They always do the work.

Get some energy out, exercise

Let’s make it clear that this has nothing to do with losing weight! Exercising in the morning can be a great way of getting some endorphins running. Endorphins are known to be the happy chemicals in our brain! Happy you, sexy you! Get it?

It can be any sort of exercise. If you like dancing, put your favorite playlist on and dance it out! You can also go for a walk, or a jog, and even do some peaceful yoga. Anything that makes your body move will do the trick!

Follow diversity!

If you are on social media, you are bombarded with extremely skinny models on tiny bikinis. That makes us feel like we should meet the same standards to be able to wear the same pieces, but it’s not true at all!

All women are beautiful and don’t have to meet a stereotype to feel beautiful.

So, stop following only one body size on Instagram. There are so many women around the platform with different body sizes and shapes that will definitely inspire you to wear whatever you want and embrace your truest self!

Seeing more girls like you will boost your confidence. Just do it!

Complement your lingerie

If you slipped lingerie on and are still not feeling it… That’s okay! Perhaps it’s time to accessorize! What makes you feel sexy? Maybe a pair of heels? Or jewelry? It could even be make-up products.

Go out shopping and pick up everything you usually feel sexy in, then accessorize it with your lingerie.

Go out for a hair make-over!

Okay, it doesn’t have to be a complete make-over. It can be just a blow-out or a color touch-up. Our hair can make a huge impact on our self-esteem, so don’t neglect that for yourself. If you are on a budget, ask a friend or even try it out yourself.

Self-care

Our lives are usually very chaotic and we have very little time to dedicate to ourselves. But take the time to do something for yourself! It can be anything. A skincare routine, or even a warm bubbly bath to wash the stress away.

Taking care of ourselves is great to reinforce self-love! And it will definitely allow you to see yourself with different lenses.

Talk to your partner

If you don’t have a partner, try talking to a friend or even one of your parents. Sometimes letting those who love us know how we are feeling can be a game-changer. When you’re not feeling pretty, I’m sure your partner will love to make you feel that way.

Finally, put on the lingerie

Even if you’re still not feeling sexy to put the lingerie on, make the extra effort to get it on. You might change your perspective once you see yourself in the mirror.

You can also drink a glass of wine to loosen up a little.

For today, that’s all I got. Don’t forget, you’re beautiful just the way you are.