It is always a good idea to surprise the ones we love. It could be a birthday surprise or an anniversary commemoration, and even a “just because” gift. The date doesn’t really matter when it comes up to surprising and spicing things up with our significant other.
What comes to mind when you think surprise? Candlelight dinners? Expensive gifts? Scratch that! Think beyond, lingerie!
Wearing special lingerie can be the perfect surprise to spice things up in your relationship. Every man has fantasies, make sure to find out what excites yours more and bet on it! The possibilities are endless when surprising your s.o with lingerie. You can pick different pieces, role-play, accessorize your lingerie into a costume and the list goes on.
Wearing lingerie can make you feel powerful and confident in yourself, and this is key to make the night amazing! Pick something bold that you never wore before if you want to feel that excitement of having “a first” again.
It sounds beautiful and all, but you’re probably asking yourself how to come up with the perfect surprise. And I’m here to make your life easier, so read along to find out how to surprise boyfriend with lingerie.
Before planning anything else, it’s shopping time! One of the great parts of this surprise is that you are also treating yourself with new pieces for your wardrobe. Think about the tone you would like to set for the night and start looking for lingerie that will DELIVER.
If you are looking for a spicy night and are not scared to be bold, invest in leather lingerie. Something kinky and out of the norm will definitely surprise you boo! You can choose a corset or a teddy… the options are endless. When experimenting with new things be sure to be open-minded! You can end up surprising yourself too.
On the other hand, if you rather a classy look instead we got you covered! A simple bra and pantie set can work just fine. You can choose a piece with laces and stones to make THE difference. Feel free to accessorize too! Get stockings, a garter belt and you are good to go!
SET THE TONE TO THE NIGHT
After shopping for your perfect lingerie, you are ready to take the next step. You could just walk in wearing your lingerie without saying anything and letting your looks do the job. But it could be so much more fun if you choose to set a tone for the night. You can text your partner letting them know that there’s something up, or sending them provocative texts showing you want SOMETHING tonight.
The surprise itself is beautiful lingerie worn by you! So whatever else you do, doesn’t have to be up the top. You can order dinner, serve some wine, and even playing a spicy playlist.
You can start drinking and having a little fun before he arrives! That way you will feel more comfortable with yourself and will enjoy the night even more.
There’re no rules here! This is your arena.
WHEN THE TIME COMES
So, you are ready, looking gorgeous, and wine is served! What now? Wear a robe, or a dress if you want, just don’t give the surprise right away! Greet him with a flirtatious vibe and be sure he gets that. Get him comfortable and talk a little. Then invite him to see your “whole” outfit.
You can lead things however you want from here! If your lingerie is bold and brings out kinky energy, don’t be scared to explore that.
He will be surprised for sure! From now on are all fun and games.
Games? What games?
If you feel like something is missing, you can play around with possibilities. One of my favorite ways to make a night spicy is to play with light! Get yourself a flashlight, your phone works too. Put all the light off and make a little show for your partner.
This game is fun because they can only see what you allow them to.
Point the flash at different parts of your body, show off your lingerie and tease them about it!
This will for sure take you out of the boring routine to a great (and hot) night with your boo.
Don’t forget to enjoy yourself, to feel beautiful and to have fun. Since your making this surprise you have all the rules in your sleeve.
Now that you know how to surprise boyfriend with lingerie, pick your favorite lingerie and go have fun! Don’t be shy to try different things and to get out of the routine. You might like it more than you think.